I went with a close friend yesterday for his interview to become a United States citizen. His journey began when he came to America from China on a student visa. The schooling didn't work out and he eventually had many jobs. He married an American but that marriage soon dissolved. He later met and married his husband in 2012 and they moved to Palm Springs. However, that story didn't end happily. His husband retired in June of 2023 and was shortly after diagnosed with lung cancer. After removing a lung in October it was discovered it had spread to his liver and he passed away in January 2024. He was with my partner and I going to help him and his husband, away for just a few minutes. When we returned he had died.
This year we were both surprised when he received a letter from The Naturalization Dept. shortly after Trump became president, asking him if he wanted to become a citizen. Since he knew he would never return to China to live again and was a very successful salesman at a store in the Cabazon Outlets, I urged him to apply. I helped him through the entire process and as a citizen myself, realized just what the process was like. Despite having a German father, I was born in Ohio, a citizen by place of birth.
We filled the application online. Be prepared to spend a few hours. Question after question, something being born here you never see or hear about. We sent in his application form and a credit card payment of $725.00 then sat back and waited for an appointment date.
Next, we went to Amazon to find the BEST book explaining how to become a citizen that included the background and the questions with answers you would likely be asked about our history and current political affairs.
When he got the book and began studying, I quickly realized a great many Americans probably couldn't answer these questions. How do I know that? All you have to do is watch questions people are asked on the street and the fact their answers are mostly incorrect. A sizable number of Americans actually don't know where Canada or Mexico are. I listen to friends spout incorrect statements and have learned to never correct them because these are the truths they believe despite what the truth is. Listen to RFK, Jr. and you'll know exactly what I mean.
We went over the 10 test pages of 100 questions over and over again. I must admit, despite all I've read and know about the U.S. government and our history I missed a few questions. In effect we both learned something about the United States. Like, who wrote the Constitution and in what year? Do you know? I wasn't sure though I knew Madison played a role in it and wrote many of the Federalist Papers using a pseudonym. It was written in 1787 by later president James Madison.
Saturday, June 14th we got up early and headed out finally leaving around 5:30 am for his 7:15 am appointment (on a Saturday no less). Going through the book one last time I came across clothing instructions. No shorts that he was wearing. After all this IS Palm Springs and it was 109ยบ yesterday so everyone wears shorts! We turned around so he could change and once headed west began asking questions one last time. As he still stumbled I gave him pointers on how to remember the answers.
We arrived early, he studied his notes and we finally, after an TSA like check at the door went to the waiting room. Other than officials, I was the only white person there. There were Chinese, East Indians, Latins and a smattering of other groups I couldn't identify. They were all there, on an early Saturday morning wanting and willing to swear allegiance to the United States. It made me feel proud, that despite all the current turmoil. the now frequent ICE raids in California, they were willing to risk all to stay here. Every American citizen needs to experience this and realize they are not to be feared but embraced to our shared destiny.
He was called about 30 minutes late as it was a busy day already. I was reading IT CAN'T HAPPEN HERE by Sinclair Lewis, realizing it COULD happen here and I was living it, when there was a tap on my shoulder. I looked up and there was my friend, back 20 minutes later. I asked, "Do we need to come back?" He smiled and gave me a paper that in a middle box, that was checked, said he was a United States Citizen. We hugged and were told to check in downstairs. They took his paper, giving him another with a small American flag and told to sit down. Everyone else held a paper and flag too.
Finally a man came up front and introduced himself, maybe from West African (I was in Peace Corps Liberia), who explained the ceremony and asked them to rise and pledge their allegiance to the United States. He then explained they were getting an official document that said they were now citizens. Sign with blue or black ink and NEVER laminate the sheet or lose it. It would cost them dearly in time and money to get a new one. We were done. Everyone lined up to take photos next to an American flag holding up their citizenship certificates. It was a heartfelt moment for all. We hugged and went to the car.
On the way home he pointed out that June 14th, today, was Trump's 79th birthday. I noted what an irony. Today a Chinese citizen, a group he despises, became a citizen of color (along with many others) on his birthday! To me, in this political climate I call them heroes!!!
The United States has a poor record on how it's treated its immigrants. We need to consider this. How many of our greatest or innovative naturalized citizens have shaped us and made us at some point leaders in the world?
There is of course Elon Musk. Erratic as he is, he has changed our use of solar energy and use of EV cars such as we will never go back. Steve Jobs, though adopted, had a Syrian father. Then there's Tesla (Serbia), Einstein (Germany), Sergey Brin (Russia) of Google, Andrew Grove ( Hungary) Intel, von Braun (Germany) NASA, Andrew Carnegie (Scotland) US Steel, Fei-Fei Li (China) AI, Charlie Chaplin and Cary Grant (England), Yo-Yo Ma (Chinese born in France), Mark Rothko (Latvia) painter, and the list goes on and on. Rather than deporting people (granted with a very few exceptions), we should be welcoming people with open arms. When you say we need to make America "Great" again, oftentimes it was immigrants that made that happen! Americans should NEVER forget that. Remember, unless you are a native American who migrated here 18,000 years ago, you and your family came from somewhere else!
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